Mr. Banks taught us a few awesome tips for grilling a good steak, and with Father’s Day just around the corner, I thought I’d share some of my new-found grilling super powers. Brent and I thought we’d put his pro tips to work on a pair of filet mignon (filets mignon? help me out here).

These tips also work great on a t-bone, porterhouse, ribeye, or strip steak. I like a filet mignon because it is super lean and tender. It’s a non weight bearing cut so it is often so tender you can cut it with your fork. My kind of steak. My husband prefers something with a little more flavor and marble, so we may be grilling His and Hers steaks for Father’s Day this year.

Any of the cuts I mentioned are pretty great for turning out a great steak. Just make sure to buy the right breed and brand. Mr. Banks says Black Angus is his favorite.

(As a random side note, you may not have been around long enough to know we raised a couple black angus of our own. They are not my favorite to raise. They love to break out, usually while you are trying to feed your children breakfast. I was forever herding them home, usually dropping everything mid-breakfast, throwing on pasture boots and occasionally running dead sprint to cut them off, all this while I was 7-months pregnant. ya. good times.)

Let’s get to the grilling. Here are seven steps to grilling the perfect premium Father’s Day steak with Mr. Banks pro tips included.

1. Buy the right meat. I know, we’ve been over this, I just wanted to make sure we agreed. Black Angus is always a safe bet. Any other favorites?
2. Bring the steak to room temp. Chilled filets at the beginning mean dry filets at the end. Pat those filets dry with a paper towel, then let them sit out on the counter for 30 min or so. Then pat again.
3. Season with ground pepper. With a filet mignon especially, because it is so lean, I occasionally like to add granulated garlic and rosemary. But keep it light, and don’t marinade a prime cut (filet, t-bone, porterhouse, ribeye, or strip steak). You don’t want to cover the natural flavor.
NOTE on SALT: I prefer not to add salt until after grilling, because it can pull the moisture right out of that prime steak (I’ve tested a salted and nonsalted steak, it really is true). If you have an, ahem, more economy priced cut of beef, I love this method (found via stephmodo) of slathering on the salt.
4. Preheat the grill. For searing a steak, you’ll want your grill hot and ready to caramelize the natural juices in your steak. You’ll know your grill is ready if you hold your hand a couple inches above the grill and can’t keep it there for more than two seconds. For a gas grill, this will take about 20 minutes. Mr. Banks always uses charcoal. I used gas. Don’t judge me, Mr. Banks!
5. Okay, are you ready to grill? You need one more thing. A pair of BBQ tongs. And put your meat thermometer away. Never, and I mean never, pierce your filets. You’ll lose the natural juices. Mr. Banks taught me a great trick for finding out when your steak is done without a thermometer, which is coming in two steps.
6. Let’s grill. Put that filet on the grill and let it grill for three minutes, keeping the lid open. Handle the filet as little as possible. Pick up the filet, with your tongs, and rotate it a quarter turn to get those great grill marks. Let it grill three minutes longer. Now flip the steak and do the same thing on the opposite side.
7. Test for doneness. This is where Mr. Banks pro tip comes in. Once you’ve carmelized both sides of your steak, it should be done if you like it rare. If not, close the lid and let the steak cook until it has reached just under your desired tenderness (it will continue to cook a little once you pull it off the grill).

To find out how done your steak is without doing the unthinkable (piercing it with a thermometer), test by pushing on the top of your steak and seeing how firm it is. Then compare against the feel of the muscle on your hand just under your thumb (modeled here by the lovely Mrs. Banks, while holding my baby so I could take pictures). The firmness when your thumb is against your pointer is what your steak will feel like if it is rare. Thumb against your middle finger is medium. And thumb against your ring finger is well done. Go ahead, give it a try.

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medium:
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7. And the final tip, that we learned from Mr. Banks last time, is to let that meat rest. Ten minutes is good, twenty is better. Wrap those filets in foil and set them in a cooler and let the juices redistribute. This is also super nice when you’re entertaining, it gives you plenty of time to finish up any extra details or grill some veggies with your full attention.

When you sit down to your steak, you’ll be glad you waited.

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Thanks to my friend and extraordinary barbecue chef, Mr. Banks, I am bringing you a trick for making sure you can make the most tender and juicy chicken on your barbecue. And Mr. Banks also, very generously, told me I could share with you his entire recipe and process for an impossibly simple, yummy barbecued roast chicken. We made this for a crowd of twelve this week and it turned out oh sooo good.

Btw, if you want in on a couple of his big secrets for grilling a steak, you’re in luck. Get them here.

Back to the poultry. Here are Mr. Bank’s exact tips and steps, with his big secret for juicy, tender chicken included.

1. Bring the entire chicken to room temp. Starting with a cold chicken means ending with a dry chicken. Let that chicken rest on the counter for at least 30 minutes. Pat it dry with paper towels.
2. Butterfly the chicken. Turn the chicken on its back and cut down the middle of the breasts. Pull it open. UPDATE: I chatted with Alan again about this recipe, and he said he will often cut down the back instead of in the middle of the breast, it leaves more moisture in the breast of the chicken.
3. Preheat your grill. You want to be able to hold your hand above the grill for about 8 seconds before you need to take it off to know your grill is the right temperature.
4. Spray that chicken with Pam (quick, simple, and just the right amount of coverage).
5. Are you ready for Mr. Banks favorite seasoning? This is his favorite whole chicken combo: Lawry’s poultry seasoning, lemon or lime juice, and Wishbone Italian dressing. And if it’s Mr. Banks favorite, than it’s mine too. Rub that bird well with poultry seasoning and step out to your grill.
5. Your job is to grill 2/3 of the time with the bone side down, 1/3 of the time with the breast side down, flipping it and basting every 10 minutes with the lemon or lime juice and Italian dressing.
6. Cook until this exact temperature. Are you ready? A meat thermometer should read 155 in the breast and 165 in the thigh (it will take about an hour and a half). It is important that you continue to the next step, Mr. Banks big secret, which finishes the cooking process (so in the end the breast will come to 160 and the thigh to 170).
7. Are you ready for Mr. Bank’s secret weapon for a tender juicy bird? This part is intrigal. Here it is.

That’s right. A cooler and a sheet of foil. Mr. Banks taught me this. Pick out a cooler that fits the meat your are cooking. Take your meat off the grill five degrees under the final temp, then wrap that baby in foil and let it rest, in the cooler (with no ice), for thirty minutes. Letting the meat rest allows juices to seep back throughout. Cut into it early and all your juices end up on your plate, not in the meat. Mr. Banks told me, if you’re making chicken, wrap it in foil and put it in a cooler. If you’re making ribs, wrap ‘em in foil and put ‘em in a cooler. If you’re making a tritip, wrap it in foil and put it in a cooler. And if you can manage to wait the full 30 minutes, it will mean a juicy cut every time.

I have one more awesome Mr. Banks tip that I am dying to share and that that I’ll be putting to work on red meat, just as soon as I can, and just in time for Father’s Day. So I will see you again soon!

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I’d like you to meet a friend of mine, Alan Banks. When Mr. Banks moved into the neighborhood, it was a good day for the neighborhood. I think it took all of a week before he was famous, for a very good reason. The man can barbeque.

He is barbecue royalty, really. His grandfather was a chef for the Navy. He cooked for admirals, who requested to have him on their ship because they knew they’d eat like kings. He cooked for all kinds of other important people, Ronald Regan included (what would that be like? I get nervous cooking for a couple friends for a dinner party). And one of his greatest loves was barbeque.
He passed down his cooking passion to his children and grandchildren, but only one really caught his passion for barbecue. And that is, you guessed it, Mr. Alan Banks.

When Alan starts to barbecue, half the neighborhood finds their way to his door. And last time, that included me. I think I was one of about ten bonus guests. I walked in to find him barbecuing chicken and tritip on one side of the house Santa Maria style, and on the other side of the house Texas smokehouse style. He is the master at slow, melt-in-your barbeque.
While I was over, I snapped a zillion pictures, of course, and I convinced him to let me share a couple of his favorites. A lot of what he does are three-generation barbecue secrets, but he agreed to let me share a few tips and favorites. So I will be back, hopefully tomorrow, with some barbecue secrets from Mr. Banks. Just in time for you to practice for Father’s Day. See you then.

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Houseguests

06.08.11

Hello everyone. I am writing to you from the floor of my closest, and for a particularly nice reason. Every bed, couch, and air mattress in my little house is full this week. We have a house full of guests, so I snuck in here with my laptop this morning to get a few things done before the house starts to get busy.

Everyone arrived last night and we carried our two dining tables outside, threw some tablecloths on, and had a great outdoor dinner and movie (I might have to share my tips on outdoor movie-watching some time). I love the bustle of lots of extra people filling the house, love setting up portacribs and running for extra bath towels.
This is our favorite new discovery for keeping glasses straight for a house full. We set out a grease marker and let everyone write/doodle their name right on their glass. Everyone gets one glass per day and I get to keep up on dishes.

Do you have any favorite house guest tips, rituals? Anything you like to have on hand? I am at the beginning of a summer of occasional visitors, and would love a few fresh ideas.

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I wanted to show you what we ended up doing with our Meant to Be Calligraphy stamp that we’re giving my son’s totally amazing kindergarten teacher.

I always think it’s fun to let the kids in on making a gift for their teacher. They always feel so proud. Even if it’s just a note to go with the gift, which is usually the simplest solution. But this time we thought we’d use our stamp to create some handmade stationary. We really tried to keep it simple and my son loved the project. We packaged it all up with some fun supplies from my favorite Japanese packaging shop, and I’m really satisfied with how it turned out.

I used the giant drawing paper you find at the art store because I love the colors and texture.
We folded it in half and ran it through my paper cutter, then my son got to work with his watercolors and a toothbrush.
I love how it turned out.
We also made some fabric name tape using this method.
Then wrapped it all up with some tape and envelopes from UGUiSU (i want to buy everything there).

And now it is all set to give to one amazing kindergarten teacher.
(p.s. If you’re still searching around for a last-minute teacher gift idea, you might find something to spark your creativity here, here, or here.)

 

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Hi everyone, this is Giannina with some inspiration board faves. With Father’s Day just around the corner, I thought today I would share some of my favorite gift ideas for your dad courtesy of the inspiration board (I’m totally loving those custom ties by the way!)

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To see more great ideas visit here.

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Giannina will be stopping by here a couple of times a month to share her fresh ideas. When she is not busy here at Giver’s Log, she can be found taking care of her four beautiful kiddos, dreaming up adorable crocheted hats and home accessories for her shop, or writing on her blog.

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I am headed to a Favorite Things Party in a few days, put on by a very cool friend.

Here are the party rules.

I get to bring three favorite things, each of them $15 or less.

As soon as I heard this I started a mental search through my kitchen drawers, my craft and gift wrap cabinets, my desk, even my cleaning supplies and garage. And if I were a little better at being girly, I might have thought through my makeup bag (I am so not on top of this. Instead I rely on beautiful, makeup-savvy friends or I just push my son’s stroller into MAC or Sephora and ask what I have to have this season that I can walk away with for under $30).

I think I have two of my favorite things picked out.
Mini gravy boats from here (for ice cream toppings, dressings, melted chocolate, you name it).
And my favorite cupcake and cake decorating tips that make people think I know something about frosting cakes.

I am working on the third. What about you, what would you take?
And speaking of favorite things, Giannina will be by tomorrow sharing a few of her favorites from the inspiration boards, so I’ll see you then!

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I am feeling like I do about a week before Christmas–when I just know I picked out a perfect gift for someone and I can hardly stand it because I want them to open it right now.
I wanted to get something special for my son’s Kindergarten teacher this year. And just take a look.

I stopped by Meant To Be Calligraphy, a shop run by the lovely and amazing Michele (who happens to be neighbors in real life to Suann). After I spent about an hour looking through her calligraphy gallery, I picked out a stamp for our awesome teacher,
and one for me too. I couldn’t help it.
(incase you’re wondering, the lettering styles I finally decided on were durham and glade)
This is part one of our gift. I’ll be putting my kindergartener to work to finish up and make part two. Which I hope to share soon.

By the way, one of my less favorite-moments of parenthood is having your kindergartener not be a kindergartner any more. I am trying to prepare myself for that last day!

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If you’re new here, welcome! I’m AmberLee, and Giverslog is my place to share recipes, gift ideas, pretty wrapping ideas, and whatever else is on my mind. I also own an online chocolate shop, The Ticket Kitchen. Stop by if you get a moment!

A few months after discovering how to make this tiered cupcake stand, I walked into Pottery Barn and saw their awesome, summery, tiered stand and—being the incurable DIYer that I am—thought, I wonder if I could make that.

It is a serious condition sometimes. My husband claims he can’t take me anywhere without me wanting to try to build some part of something I saw when I get home.
I picked up the supplies a few months ago, when I was in Micheal’s with my half-off coupon, and have been waiting for an open Saturday to give it a shot. I ran across Lizard & Ladybug who had been thinking the same thing as me, and am glad I did. She made her stand with a length of conduit, and made it look so good that I returned the curtain rod I’d been planning to use.

This weekend I got to work and love the result. Though I have to admit, about half way through the process was wondering if I should have just shelled out for the Pottery Barn original. But hopefully I have a few tips that will make it simpler if you’re like me and love a good DIY.
supplies
tiered cake pans ($18 with my coupon)
drawer pull that lets you take out the screw (I found mine at Lowe’s, $3)
all thread that is compatible with your drawer pull (I try screwing it in right in the isles of Lowe’s, $2)
conduit ($3)
bolts and washers
melamine plate

hack saw, clamp, file (UPDATE: see below, you may not need these at all)
hammer and nail
drill
Don’t forget to use your coupon when you go to pick up your tiered pans. I used my JoAnne’s coupon at Michaels (you knew you could do that, right?)
I opted for a thicker length of conduit to keep things sturdier. I cut three lengths that were just over six inches long. If I did it again I think I’d cut them right at six inches.

The most challenging part was cutting the conduit. Cuts need to be perfectly straight in order to avoid a leaning stand.

UPDATE: Thanks to Layne and Nicole, I now know you can skip this part, entirely. You can pick up a pipe cutter for just a few bucks (thanks, Layne!), or you can have your conduit cut right in the plumbing section (thanks for letting me in on that little secret, Nicole! )

I started by using my hack saw to score a dotted line all the way around the conduit, to make sure it was even and matched up all the way around. Clamp the conduit, saw a couple times just to score the surface, open the clamp and rotate the conduit just a little. Repeat.

Then I used the same technique to slowly saw around the conduit, sawing little by little, opening the clamp and rotating as I went, until I had a nice even cut.

I then used my file to finish evening off the end. Hold the conduit close to the file to make the work quicker. Just don’t file away your fingers.
Now all the hard work is over. If you can get through this part you’re practically finished.

I marked the center of the top pan and used a hammer and nail to pierce a hole. I then lined it up with the other pans to find the spot to pierce the last two holes.
For the base, I used a melamine plate I had left over from my DIY cupcake stand. Lizard and Ladybug uses the smallest pan from the nesting set for the base, which turned out great. I just wanted to save that pan for actual baking. I think it will turn out the perfect sized personal birthday cake.

Drilling a hole in the center is not too tough. Just use a wood bit in your drill and take your time so you don’t crack the plate.

Finally, the only thing left to do is assemble everything.
That’s it. Now all it needs is some cupcakes or cups full of strawberries.
I think one of my favorite parts is the storage. Mine is now stored away inconspicuously in the cupboard above my fridge, waiting for our first summer shindig.

 

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“Do you have any ideas for staff gifts? I’m going to be leaving my job at the end of July, and I want to give something to my fellow staff members, of whom there are about 35. I’m going to bring in an edible treat for the whole office (attorneys included) but I wanted to give a special little token to staff. I also would like to give something to the children I teach at my church (20?), and some of the people at my church who have been so kind to me. Yeah, that’s a lot of people…I don’t know what I’m thinking…” —Rebekah


Rebekah, From the sound of your note, I have a feeling you are really going to be missed. For your staff, you might consider buying a few batches of Marc Vidal colored pencils, and give each staff member a mini bouquet of bright pencils. Or if you want something edible, a tube of these gourmet sea salts could dress up any brown bag lunch.

And for the little ones, I love these pouches. They’re meant as a summer reading treat, but I know my kiddos would love being handed a bag of treats like this, and would use the pouch to store treasures for years to come.

What about you, readers, any ideas to help Rebekah?

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It has been a while since we’ve featured an incredibly thoughtful man giving an incredibly thoughtful gift. When Liz of Arty McGoo sent me a note with this story, I had to share. And for any man who happens to be reading, I can tell you as a woman, authoritatively, this is the best idea ever.

superstar husband John and the lovely Liz of Arty McGoo

So, last Friday John says, “We need to go to Wal-Mart to get some things.”
Little did I know when I got in the car that he was going to wifenap me and take me away

for 4 days.

Instead of driving to Wal-Mart, he drove for 3 hours with me asking questions like, “What in the world are you doing???” “Where are we going?” After unsuccessfully trying to get information out of him, I resigned myself to being blissfully ignorant of where we were going or what we were doing.

After 3 hours of driving north we reached an Olive Garden and I’m thinking, “We drove 3 hours for Olive Garden???” John’s parents were there and they took the kids. “Bye kids! I love you! I don’t know where I’m going or when I’ll be back, but have a good time with grandma and grandpa!”

Then, John drives to an airport and I say, “Am I flying right now? Am I getting on a plane???”

John just smiles a smug little smile. And moments later I’m going through a security checkout and getting on a plane headed for Scottsdale Arizona!!! Carrying bags that John packed for me!!!

… Now, I am not picky and no fashionista, but I find some bizarre clothing choices and see that most of the items in my suitcase were destined for the Salvation Army. He packed a pair of gi-normous OVERALLS! a pair of jeans with a HUGE rip in them, a too small swimsuit, and some tiny T-shirts. Ugh! I was going to look really cute on this super mysterious trip he planned. To his credit he did pack one of my favorite dresses and heels.

After making a quick 11:00 p.m. trip to the 24 hour Wal-Mart (we did actually end up going to Wal-Mart!!!) for some cheap clothes that fit me, we had the most amazingly fabulous weekend. Arizona is where we lived our first three poor, silly, crazy newlywed years.

We visited all our old haunts, favorite restaurants, went to a Coyotes hockey game, Ostrich Festival where we saw camels, zebras and ostrich races (it was hilarious) went swimming and hot tubbing all hours of the night, ate milk and cookies, people watched at the über swank Fashion Square, saw old friends, shopped, ate horribly, and generally had a fantastic, fun, and carefree weekend. It was INCREDIBLE!

 

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Here’s to one rock star husband, from all of us.

Thank you to Liz (and John!) for sharing. If you haven’t been by Liz’s blog, Arty McGoo, head over now, and don’t miss all her yummy baking.

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“I’m pregnant with our third and finding it more and more difficult to send ‘thank you’ notes promptly. After my second was born, we were blessed to receive lots of meals from friends, but I was almost too stressed about the ‘thank you’ notes to fully enjoy them. And now, anticipating the same situation when this baby arrives in August, I would like to come up with a small, thoughtful, but inexpensive gift that I can give people when they deliver meals (I’ll still write ‘thank you’ notes, of course, but if I can hand them something at the door, I feel like it will buy me a little time). Do you have any ideas??” —Adrienne

Adrienne, Congrats on expecting a new little one! And I am totally with you, I can stress so much about thank you notes, and I love your solution. If it were a little cooler I’d suggest freeze-ahead cookie dough and a cute cookie cutter, but since you’re lucky enough to be having this baby in the full heat of summer, you might want to put together some caramel sauce for your friends to drizzle over ice cream or send them home with a all the makings for s’mores.

What about you, readers? We’d love your favorite ideas and links. And if you’ve seen any cute printables or packaging, I’m sure that would inspire us too!

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I opened my email one day to find a note with these adorable pics in it.
You are looking at two little cousins, one who decided to mail her cousin a ball, and the other who opened her mail box to find it. Thank you, Brenda, for sending these. I do not think these sweet cousins could be any cuter.

Of course that put me over the edge and we had to try this ourselves.

Sharpies were essential so we pulled out our favorite colors. We stamped a couple balls and decided we needed extra decoration.
So we scribbled on foil with our sharpies and cut out a few stars and ran them through the sticker maker for a little extra flash.
This is my daughter and her cute friend who came along with us for icees and then to the post office to get postage.


I asked my post office worker to just give me stamps so I could take a picture for you before I mailed them. He gave me two 98-cent stamps for each. And now we have the balls all set to send out. We are waiting for a couple certain occasions and I am getting near giggly just thinking about it.

and incase you’d like to see a little more, here is my favorite fun mail inspiration from the archives (or follow my 13 oz or less Pinterest board, or see it all right here):

A Disposable Camera | A Sponge | A Tube of Bert’s Bees | A Wreath and Twinkly Lights | A Disguise | School Supplies | A Pair of Flip Flops | A Big Ball | Plastic Eggs 1 and 2 | Silly Putty |Shovel & a Bucket | Ribbon Sticks | Bubblewrap Hopscotch | Fan Mail | Waterbottle Care Package | Bouncy Balls | Sticky Notes | Jr Mints | Frisbee | Mini Banner and Mini m&ms

find postage rates for happy mail right here along with other mailing details

 

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Weekend

05.11.11

I was away for a few days this weekend and am finally catching up. I got to fly to Utah to watch my baby sister, who is about to graduate from High School, at her last ever dance competition.
It was so fun and crazy to step back in to the dance world. It has been a while. This is me back in the day as a cougarette (dance teams always have the most awesome names), in one of our better costumes. We had a pair of pants that I’m pretty sure were authentic hammer pants, which would have been very cool about a decade earlier.
And this is my little sister, who is amazing.
It was two days of watching dance, reading (i’m in the middle of this book), and walking around SLC. In two days we ate two times at this German deli. If you’re ever in Salt Lake, go. It was good, and super affordable.

And best of all, I got to be with my mom mother’s day morning, and my kids and honey mother’s day afternoon. My mother is probably the most patient and also quietly confident woman who ever lived. It was great to be with her.

Thinking of the inspiring women I’ve met in my life is one of my favorite things on mother’s day. Happy (very belated) Mother’s Day to the many inspiring woman I have met through the blog world. I hope your weekend was everything you wanted.

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