Afternoon Tea Party

03.16.10

I am so pleased to tell you that our tea party was a smashing success. Really it couldn’t have been more of a delight.  The little ladies arrived in their pretty dresses ready to munch and chat, and fully determined to have a good time. They broke out into impromptu games of ring around the rosie, and they burst into cheers for each girl around the tea table, which may not have been polite tea talk, but it was perfectly lovely. And they all-around made the party worth all my trouble.

I did have one moment of doubt. Is this a good place to confess? About an hour before the party I still had flour all over the counter and hadn’t made it to the shower yet. Please tell me you’ve done this at least once when you’ve entertained. Somehow though, it all came together. I’m just glad I planned this over a week after our Mario party. That timing was just about right.

I’ve told you the invitations are my favorite part of any party. So of course we had to do something fun with them. We used glassine and my Divine Twine to make these. (Thanks for the inspiration, Sherry!)

We had three proper courses, and followed these guidelines to the letter as best we could. Of course our tea sandwiches had to have cucumbers to be legit. My daughter’s favorite part was going around the table, asking “one lump or two?” We did, however, also offered lollipops for stirring the tea, which make a colorful replacement for a sugar spoon.


Thank heaven for Krustez and Pilsbury. Without them there would have been no scones and no pretty sugar cookies to decorate.

Do you like the cake? I used this trick for making it smooth, and doodled on it using this trick. It turned out to be the easiest thing.

As the girls arrived, they each got to decorate their own pretty dress cookie. This turned out to be the perfect inexpensive craft. Plus it turns out that icing a cookie and designing your dream ball gown makes for a pretty good time.

I used this idea to make a cupcake with different color candies wrapped up inside. I made just one of these so we could use it for a game: I hung feathers from the ceiling that matched the colors of candy. Then we followed the rules for a cake walk. We played music, had it stop and had the girls run under a feather.  We found out who won by unwinding the surprise-ball cupcake (oh the suspense!) to reveal the next color of candy.

We decorated the front door, which doubled as our photo booth. The roof and walls of my patio are painted white, and I find I get pretty good lighting there. The shots turned pretty cute. It’s harder to get cuter than excited girls dressed up for a birthday party.

Do you like the chair favors? They’re my favorite touch. I got the idea from this version, which I saw online just days before the party or I would have considered buying them. Though these were pretty easy to put together.

We’ve had lots of our little guests tell us since that they’re just dying to have their own tea parties. Which I think is adorable, and which I figure makes for a good compliment. And truthfully I had a great time too, I think afternoon tea really could be addicting. So I think the next logical step is either to move to England or host my own afternoon tea for grown up ladies. Though I think I’d better give the husband a little break before I bring up either of these.

{ 18 comments… read them below or add one }

Hil March 16, 2010 at 7:55 am

ADORABLE!! You thought of every last detail, didn’t you? What a lucky girls!

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Becky March 16, 2010 at 8:07 am

So fun! I especially love that cake-impressive :)

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marta March 16, 2010 at 9:43 am

lovely, lovely. those little chair favors are darling and so is that amazing cake. well done! and i second that opinion, the invitations are the best part!

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Whitney @ Whisker Graphics March 16, 2010 at 10:14 am

Amber,
You did a fantastic job on your daughter’s party! So many things to love- the invites, the cake, the craft, the game (so clever!). Well done!

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Jeanette Mc. March 16, 2010 at 10:34 am

Once again, I am floored – floored. I wish I could go to this party. The dresses on the girls, the cookies, the games, that cake – oh just all so very adorable. Mostly, I would like your MIL to come over and do my nails becaue I haven’t touched them in months! By the way, as far as having flour on the counter before the party – are you kidding? I once had 40 people coming for New Years Eve and all my kichen cabinet doors were outside with wet paint an hour before the first guest arrived! You’re amazing.

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tracie @ {tsj}photography March 16, 2010 at 11:04 am

hello!! i’m planning a princess tea party for my daughter in just a few weeks … love these ideas … especially the invitation! i’m really slipping in that area! i used to theme an entire party around the invite … should i even admit that i just used tinyprints?! :(

thanks for this additional inspiration!!

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Becky March 16, 2010 at 2:32 pm

English tea would feature clotted cream for those scones! Or some strawberries in cream :) Or fruitcake………blech.

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Opa March 17, 2010 at 8:48 am

We had better not miss that party next year!!!

Love, Opa and Oma

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estelle March 17, 2010 at 2:05 pm

Love all the images from the party. So happy and sweet. I especially love that heart-shaped garland on the door. well done!

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Stephanie April 10, 2010 at 10:33 am

Absolutely perfect! I especially love that you decorated the door and used it as a photo booth.

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Misty August 22, 2010 at 5:02 pm

What a fabulous tea party!

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Tristen Birthday Entertainer September 7, 2010 at 4:58 am

I love the cake and, again, you did a great job creating an adorable and unique invitation. Your daughter must love having such a creative mom!

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Augustus Basner November 30, 2010 at 4:11 pm

Lovely stuff! I went to the UK this summer and had some afternoon tea with scones , and it was so delicious I figured I’d try make my own last weekend. I might have broken a few rules maybe – I found a bunch of random scone recipes here and made 4 different types! My friends were so happy when I brought them round for tea and scones. Great fun!

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katie January 18, 2011 at 1:12 am

Hello! I just stumbled across your website and LOVE it! I’m hosting a baby shower for my dear friend and have officially fallen for your invitations on this page. Do you have this as one of your “printables”? (it looks like you have things for print) or do you sell these? ANY help on making these / getting these would be MUCH appreciated. You are fabulous! Thanks!

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Luisa January 30, 2011 at 6:48 am

hello! i really love the pink tea set you have in your pictures! where did you get it?

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AmberLee February 1, 2011 at 12:48 pm

I Luisa!
I’m glad you like it. I’m so sorry to tell you, I borrowed it! So I’m not sure where it is originally from. Some day I hope to get a set of my own!

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bit of green March 11, 2011 at 11:44 am

This is brilliant!
I like how you think of every little detail, I’m sure every party of yours is a success!
I must admit I like your miniature chairs more than the ready-made.
Thanks for giving us so many cute ideas with every post!

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katie August 7, 2011 at 4:49 am

hi this is totaly cool i love it: here is my blog about themed kids parties and keeping to a budget: http://onlinepartyplanner4kids.blogspot.com/ please check it out and pass on the link to anyone with kids, nieces, nethews etc…

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